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New site? Maybe some day. [Discussion][Everything Else]
| turtledong -- 2011-02-23 01:34:43 -- wow fagfest...this must be why you became a "photographer" POINT AND SHOOT HOMO....what the fuck kind of gathering is this you spent your precious time at |
04 Sat | Eluveitie / Omnium Gatherum / Seven Spires |
The Palladium (Worcester, MA) |
27 Sun | Omnium Gatherum, Allegaeon, Black Crown Initiate |
Middle East (Cambridge, MA) |
01 Tue | give consideration to the '3
(the specific Frisky) First thing one morning I got a text from one of my friends, The kind I get nearly always: "Met my husband to be last night, My response was my the norm one: "Get back to me in weeks,
If I've learned one valuable thing from the dating whirligig I've been on going back six years (Give or take six months here or certainly there), It's that you must wait at least three months before looking towards the long term possibilities of a new person.
I don't need to sound cynical or jaded. I totally believe in love for myself and my girlftriend, But what I believe in more is that it takes a really long time to get to know someone and it's a complicated process. Whirlwind romances were very popular these days for me in 1997, But I'm older and wiser now. And not anymore wear red velvet leopard charmingdate.com print pants.
The first three months of knowing someone is a time of illusions. Instead of seeing the person objectively, You see them for who you would like them to be. Your object of desire is laden with fantasies and projections. I think it takes about three months to strip away the layers and start to see this person for who they are really.
I can't even count how frequent that I or a friend started dating someone and days or even weeks later found out there was something seriously messed up about him.
"oh yea, you haven't been in love and you're 35, "also, You just got out of a 10 year intimate last week, "goodness me, You don't ever desire children, "ohio, You're mentally volatile,
The more and less obvious developments about another are made in that three month period. That's stuff you should know before you move forward.
of course, I think three months gives you enough time to see if the new person in life is consistent. Do they call when they say they will? will they cancel dates? Do they even have plenty of time for dates? Do they want to hang out once a week or six times a week and does that mesh with what you're looking for? How can they treat you after a month? Any major arguments on fundamental things? How do they behave in numerous situations?
The being compatible check list is endless. You need those three months to gather the data you need to decide if you want this person in your life for the next three months.
each of our Frisky: 10 best tips for dating online
With all the disappointments that can come along with dating, I say why bother getting in a tizzy about someone who could be a Russian spy? rest room I always say to myself, To my friends, And for your requirements, personals, Check in after several weeks and tell me how great the new person you're dating is.
If everything is still coming up roses, Maybe I'll dance a jig on you. But it could take me six months to a year before I'm buying this "My husband to be" organization. |
 Turkey |
11 Fri | THE BOSTON ROCK COMMUNITY GATHERS FOR
NOT A WASTED NIGHT
A SPECIAL CONCERT TO BENEFIT
CHRIS DOHERTY OF GANGGREEN
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THE DOGMATICS, EVAN DANDO (THE LEMONHEADS),
THE F.U.’S, THE OUTLETS, SLAPSHOT, SPRINGA (OF SSD),
TREE, UNNATURAL AXE, WHITE DYNOMITE, WORM,
AND THE SKATE TO HELL BAND
(FEATURING FORMER MEMBERS OF GANGGREEN) |
The Paradise Rock Club (Boston, MA) |
03 Sun | Bent Knee, Gatherers, Owel |
Fete Music (Providence, RI) |
04 Tue | Dark Tranquility / Omnium Gatherum / Exmortus / Nightslasher |
The Palladium (Worcester, MA) |
15 Tue | The Gathering, Tub Ring, Diary of Need, Foxy Shazam. $15 advance, $18 DOS, Doors at 7:30 |
Rebel (New York, NY) |
05 Tue | GATHER (ca), 7 GENERATIONS (ca), BLACK SHIPS (montreal) +1 unnamed band. 8pm. all ages. vegan potluck. $5-10. info: nonsvch.tk |
sahara club (portland, maine) |
| benefit for the SHAC 7. GATHER (ca vegan sxe hc), 7 GENERATIONS (ca vegan sxe hc), BLACK SHIPS (dark n heavy montreal punk), &us (no name yet... our first show!) 8pm. all ages. vegan potluck. $5-10. bring a mixtape (or cd) for the mixtape exchange box. more info: nonsvch.tk |
sahara club (portland, maine) |
04 Mon | VERSE, SHIPWRECK, 7 GENERATIONS, GATHER, DRAW BLOOD, HULK OUT - 7pm sharp, All ages, Vegan potluck |
Providence Turners - 118 Glenbridge, Providence RI |
25 Sat | Sins of Angels, P.O.O.P., D.F.S. 10pm $5 at door, 315-336-9592-club, 315-865-5994-booking |
The Gathering Place 287 E. Dominick St. Rome NY |
20 Mon | The Gathering, Unexpect, Giant Squid, 18+ downstairs $15 |
Middle East (Cambridge, Ma) |
10 Fri | INNER SELF LOST, GODLESS RISING, HOLD YOUR OWN, ANOMOLOUS, GATHERING SHADOWS.....8PM ALL AGES |
THE LIVING ROOM/ PROVIDENCE RHODE ISLAND |
24 Sat | Suicide Dream, Invictus, Gathering Shadows, Dreaded Silence, Soul Shroud, HBBSI, Eyes of The Dead, The Accursed, Shroud of Bereavement, Inflicted, Vicious Disorder ALL AGES, STARTS AT 3:00PM, $10 in advance, $15 at the door |
The Outdoor Pavilion (located at 116 Club Road in Windham, all the way up the driveway) |
06 Fri | SUICIDE DREAM, SHROUD OF BEREAVEMENT, SACRELIGION, OBSIDIAN HALO, GATHERING SHADOWS, BLIND HATRED - 16+, 21+ to drink, 7 pm, $10 in advance - E-mail shadow@neca.com for tickets |
Club 305 (East Providence, RI) |
02 Sat | SUICIDE DREAM, THE ACCURSED, INFLICTED, SACRELIGION, GATHERING SHADOWS, ENDGAME, AND MORE - ALL AGES! / Doors 5:30 p.m. / $13 at the door/ $10 in advance / Contact shadow@neca.com for tickets |
The Atrium (Worcester, MA) |
30 Thu | Devil In The Kitchen, Gathering Shadows, A Blind Prophecy, 6:00pm, all ages, $7
Marching Through Silence, Shores of Effulgence, Toward the Inside, |
The Drop Zone
2600 Mendon Road, Cumberland, RI 02864 |
| Midwinter Metal Massacre. All Ages. Doors 5:30. Show 6 - 10. 7 Dollars. Toward the Inside, Shores of Effulgence, Marching Through Silence, Devil in the Kitchen, A Blind Prophecy, Gathering Shadows. |
The Drop Zone (2600 Mendon Road, Cumberland RI.) Across from Cumberland High. |
20 Sat | Sacreligion, Suicide Dream, The Accursed, Gathering Shadows, Tester, Divine Logic Error, Lucid Sky: $10 : All Ages : 6PM |
Club Marque(336 Main St.), Worcester, MA |
22 Sun | A Blind Prophecy @ 6PM, Gathering Shadows @ 8PM. $8 at the door. 18+ only. |
Jarrod's Place (Attleboro, Ma) |
24 Mon | Helvete - At the Paradise Lounge your monthly gathering metal and beer is back. 18+ 21 and over free, under 21 $3.00 |
Comm. Ave. Boston |
15 Sun | The Gathering, Agalloch |
Middle East (Cambridge, Ma) |
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